Disc jockey and media personality Ms DSF has called on women to value and protect their female friendships instead of ending them over every disagreement.
Sharing her thoughts on social media, Ms DSF said many women are unwilling to give their friends room to make mistakes, often cutting them off after a single misunderstanding rather than resolving issues through honest conversations.
She wrote:
“Girls be so strict with each other sometimes and it pisses me OFF. You don’t give your friends grace, you don’t let them make mistakes. One fight/misunderstanding and you want to cut people off like OT Genesis.
“Instead of getting real, fighting through it and having hard conversations, it’s, ‘I need to protect my peace, she’s a hater, she’s a weirdo,’ blah blah blah.”
She also pointed out what she described as a double standard, saying some women are willing to forgive romantic partners repeatedly while refusing to extend the same grace to their female friends.
“But you’ve given that same man that don’t do right by you 10000 + 1 chances. That behaviour is lame AF. Do better.”
Ms DSF added that society has become overly individualistic, arguing that strong communities are built through love, understanding and lasting relationships.
“Our culture promotes individualism so much to the extreme sometimes. Humans need humans. Humans need love and community and you cannot build a community if every man wants to be an island.”
