Nollywood actor Uzor Arukwe has paid an emotional tribute to his late colleague Alexx Ekubo, while also explaining why he initially chose to remain silent following news of the actor’s passing.
Arukwe said many people questioned his decision not to make a public statement or post about Ekubo’s death, noting that his silence was misunderstood by some.
He explained that the news was deeply painful for him, leaving him struggling to process it or find the right words to express his grief.
According to him, some losses feel so personal that they do not immediately translate into public reactions, adding that he initially held back as part of his grieving process.
Arukwe recalled meeting Alexx Ekubo on a film set, describing him as warm, kind, and accommodating from the very beginning.
He added that conversations and tributes from others who knew the late actor more closely further highlighted the positive impact Ekubo had on people around him.
Reflecting on his legacy, Arukwe said the outpouring of tributes served as a reminder that beyond fame and talent, people are ultimately remembered for their character, kindness, and how they treat others.
He also stressed that not all grief must be shared publicly, noting that silence, memories, and prayers are also valid ways of mourning.
“I’ve been quiet.
And I know some people wondered why I didn’t post, why I didn’t say anything, why there were no pictures, no captions, no public display of grief.
The truth is, I didn’t know what to say.
Some losses don’t meet you online first; they sit with you quietly. They make you shake your head and say, “Mba… not this person. Not Alex.” You replay the memories and hope someone will call to say there has been a mistake.
I met Alex Ikenna Ekubo on Dabby Chimere’s set. From day one, he was warm, accommodating, and every bit the gentleman people have described him to be. No noise. No airs. Just a genuinely good man.
Listening to the stories from those who knew him better, I found myself humbled. It reminded me that at the end of it all, people won’t only remember our talent or our achievements. They will remember our kindness. They will remember how we treated people. They will remember our spirit.
So silence was my first response to the news of your death because grief comes with silence too. Not every goodbye needs a post. Some are carried in prayer. Some are carried in memories. Some are carried in the heart….”
